Boyfriend Issues with MySpace?

So, a few months into our relationship i caught my bf sending girls messages on myspace. Nothing really bad, but just stuff like "hey i like ur pics". If he carried on conversation, he always mentioned me so he wasnt being unfaithful or anything. I also seen him commenting pics calling women beautiful and stuff like that. Now we have been together over a year and it is 7 months later, but I STILL am mad at times and do not trust him even though I have his password. (even though he has quit since i told him it bothered me) He thought he wasnt doing anything wrong and it was harmless. I am all over his profile... his url for the page is ilovelizzy! lol Should i chill out and let go or still have issues? Am i crazy? LOL

Boyfriend Issues with MySpace?

I think you're being unfair to him. And smothering him a little too much.

The guy is obviously all about you. Pushing the fact further is overkill. Do you want him to love you... because he loves you? Or because you're so dominant over him that he just loves you because you tell him to?

Your boyfriend doesn't sound like a player or a liar, and most guys don't really know how to interact with women. Until a guy gets past the surface, he doesn't really know what to talk about to a woman... so most guys resort to compliments to try to start conversation. Men and women speak different languages like that.

You need to trust your guy. Without trust, you have nothing.

Boyfriend Issues with MySpace?

Let it go, jealousy is toxic.

Boyfriend Issues with MySpace?

Move along.. time for a new BF.

Edit: As long as you are still concerned about cheating. If he's checking out other women, he's probably not that dedicated to you. The good thing is you've been open and honest with him, and he seems to have responded. That's promising. But always remember to trust your instincts, don't blindfold yourself to what you feel might not be right.

Boyfriend Issues with MySpace?

AGAINNNNNNNNNNNNN!

YES CHILL OUT! he hasn't touch these women, did he? NO! its only internet, its so harmless and he hasnt cheat on you. Why don't you do same thing? leave some messages to some guys, post the comments about guys' pictures, i am sure he doesnt care if you do. But hey if its bother him then you can teach him a lesson, if he doesnt comfort what you just do like him then tell him that he has to stop doing it and you will do same. Fair is Fair. Also chillllllllllllllll out, its only words, so what

Boyfriend Issues with MySpace?

I felt the same way when I caught my ex doing that, so I don't know because I was pretty mad too. hahah.

Boyfriend Issues with MySpace?

Don't let it bother you he wasnt doing anything wrong though...just commenting hoes pictures on the net unless they live near u then u could have a problem

Boyfriend Issues with MySpace?

chill out and let go. especially if he has stopped. since you asked him to and he did, then he really has to like you. alot of guys would just end it.

Boyfriend Issues with MySpace?

From what I see on the news and such, nothing good comes from myspace. Move on with your life. No trust, no relationship. Period.

Boyfriend Issues with MySpace?

Do the same and if he don't like it tell him that he should stop because it bothers you. But i don't think is a big issue.

Boyfriend Issues with MySpace?

stop wasting time!! its ok to look at the grass so long as his is not laying on it!!

Boyfriend Issues with MySpace?

I think that's a sign of insecurity. With what you wrote here it seems that he has nothing to hide... so just chill out.

Boyfriend Issues with MySpace?

You gots to be crazy if you don't trust him. I think he truly loves you if he has his profile lie that.And also you've been dating for a while so I think you have to have trust by now.You know boys are like that, they date someone , but they still have and want girl friends. I think you should chill out. Writing I like your pics doesn't mean I love you okay, so yeah. if you have his password I hope he gave it to you, Because if you figured it out by your own that means you don not trust him and if you do not trust him he will kind of not trust you and your relationship will PROBABLY start to fall apart. Love is confusing sometimes isn't it?????

Boyfriend Issues with MySpace?

Yes you are CRAZY... anything that happens over the net is all FAKE anyways... he could be cybering and its still NOT cheeting... Thats why it is called Cyber Space. Its like playing a Game... If he was playing one of them games that have hookers and in that game he took a hooker home with him, would you call that cheating?

Boyfriend Issues with MySpace?

Lizzy, you one crazy ******. Are you Bipolar? If so, I know why your boyfriend's with you. I heard Bipolar chicks are crazy but they are freaky as hell in bed. Anyway, give him some space woman. It's called my space not yours.

Boyfriend Issues with MySpace?

myspace is there to keep people communicating and to help put a smile on someones face. if he is including you in his conversations then hes not flirting and its all good :)

Boyfriend Issues with MySpace?

Not crazy, just jealous. Chill out girlfriend before you lose him. He's a guy. Let him be a guy. Would you rather he say these things about men???? lol But seriously, men can't stand to be watched especially if they aren't doing anything wrong. Quit bringing up the past, it's the past let it be and move forward with the relationship. How would you feel if he kept bringing up stuff from the past?

You also need to examine yourself. How do you view yourself? Were you comparing yourself to the girls that he was commenting on? You may have a touch of low self-esteem, which would cause you to get jealous. But to me, sounds like he's in love with you DON'T LOSE HIM!

Boyfriend Issues with MySpace?

I think its ok for him to do all that and i also think its ok for you as his gf to get jealous- I would to. Its great that he quits when you told him that you are not comfortable with it some other guys might not like it. you have to learn and trust him not 100% though. carry on with yr relationship and treasure the gd times.